Living Happily Together or Breaking Up

Couples therapy for couples who should make a choice.

Online Therapy or Live Therapy in Fiji, Bali, Singapore or Malaysia

Key Relationship Issues

Attention

When work, kids, daily chores and watching Netflix go first you can be so tired at the end of the day that you lack time and energy to really connect with each other.

Intimacy

After so many years together you lack intimacy. You like to be together, but miss the passion in your relationship. There is a barrier that you don’t know how to overcome.

Infidelity

It hurts the one you love and it hurts you too. You keep getting judged for things you did wrong. Not knowing how to resolve this.

If you make love work, Loveworkx for you.

Loveworkx Approach

What

We help to create great, fulfilling and exiting relationships and spare couples a bitter and bad divorce. We love to work with couples with both Dutch and other nationalities. ​

How

We use an in-house developed method, proven in effectiveness, to help you unravel your relationship issues. We use both business principles and Emotionally Focused Therapy to bring love back into your relationship.

Added value

We are dedicated to solving complex problems with great and consistent results. We work on recreating attraction. We use counter intuitive solutions. We articulate the problems. We create an overview of the steps to be taken. We guide the process. We make love work.

You might think couples therapy is not for you

Opening Up

You don’t like the idea to explore an intimate part of your live with a stranger. Or voice things to your partner that you have not said before.

You might worry that this “will be just another place where you are criticized or blamed”.

Expensive

An average divorce in the Netherlands cost 30.000 euros.

Losing money is not the pain you will suffer. You will feel all the pain, anxiety and frustration that goes with the divorce and with living on your own. Besides it will probably also impact your children and people around you.

We can do it Ourselves

Couples wait an average of six years of being unhappy before getting help. By that time they have build up resentment before they begin the important work of learning to resolve differences in effective ways.
To get unstuck from patterns that might far predate your relationship is difficult.

What can you expect from Loveworkx?

We turn relationships around

We have a high success rate. In 80% of the cases, we are able to help improve your relationship.

Non-judgemental

We listen without judgment. We help you voice your needs.

No digging in the past

You don’t need to revisit your childhood to resolve your relationship issues.

You don't need someone to complete you. You only need someone to accept you completely.

The benefits of couples therapy

Relaxed

At home, you feel relaxed, no anxious anticipation of new conflicts.

Revitalized

Increased intimacy and sexual satisfaction. You feel vitalized and that shows at the workplace.

Rejoiced

You feel appreciated, valued, supported and seen by your partner.

From good to great.

Jacqueline Evers - a very experienced couples therapist

Experience

For over 18 years I have successfully worked with over 1,450 clients. I trained over 250 psychotherapists at the Nederlandse Academy voor Psychotherapie in Amsterdam. I regularly work with partners from various nationalities. I have helped Quote 500 people, celebrities and a lot of other couples to make their relationship work. 

Education

I have a degree in Psycho- and Hypnotherapy (4-year course) and Integrative Child Therapist (4-year course). I am a certified EFT therapist (Emotionally Focused Therapy), Voice Dialogue and Family Constellations.

Approach​

My approach is based on the most important contemporary insights into couples therapy and my many years of practical experience. I use interventions that are most effective and that are tailored to both partners.

Couples therapist Jacqueline Evers

I understand the business context

In addition to my therapeutic knowledge and experience, I also have a background in business where I have been business unit manager and interim manager.

I speak from the heart

I often hear that I use a warm and confrontational style, in which I listen without judgment, quickly come to the core and offer practical tools.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Many things that cause stress happen in life. Cheating, dismissal, death, having children. This creates lots of thoughts, feelings and behavior. Themes that can arise in childhood include fear of commitment and separation anxiety, but also guilt and shame. Sue Johnson developed Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Scientific research has been done into this and it proves to be successful in 77% when it is used in relationship therapy. In 90% there is an improvement in the relationship. I have been trained as an EFT therapist according to the latest insights from Sue Johnson in 2019 and I am affiliated with Stichting EFT Nederland.

Customer experience

My relationship has gained a stronger foundation because we communicate better with each other, there are fewer doubts and question marks. I found it particularly pleasant to peel off a number of difficult themes with an objective outsider. 
Koos 
4.8
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gadi erel
16:23 07 Apr 20
Working with Jacqueline was truly transformational. I recommend meeting with Jacqueline to anyone. Without getting to personal Jacqueline helped me see lots of positivity i already have in my life and helped me look at things from the right angel and that helped me move to a more productive place in my life.
Horia Constantin
10:10 04 Apr 19
We came with the need to find out what non-constructive patterns we have in our relationship. Jacqueline helped us find a couple of patterns that are not useful and showed us a couple of better replacements. She showed a lot of understanding and empathy and her interventions and observations were perfect.
I'm very happy with the results of our sessions. I recommend Jacqueline as a great relationship therapist.
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